Happy Birthday baby Ambrose. Black Terror Kid PART 3, Free Microcapitalism book
April 22, 2010 in FAMILY, MY WEB COMIC, THE SIMPSONS NEWS
THE SIMPSONS NEWS
I work with the kindest people. Tuesday night I received flowers in regards to the birth of my baby boy (more on that below, after the comic). Thank you so much everyone.
It was difficult to concentrate at work this week. That said, I think I got quite a lot done.
BOOKS
I wrote about Paul Nowak’s new book THE MICROCAPILIST MANIFESTO a few weeks back. Well, it turns out that Paul has decided to release the book for FREE.
Yup, so if you’re interested in the book, I recommend to click the link below and get yourself a copy:
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MY WEB COMIC
For the earlier part of this story, CLICK HERE.
To be continued…
FAMILY
A ton has happened since my last post.
On April 15th my son Ambrose Mikayel Escobar was born. He’s named after St. Ambrose and Michael the Archangel.
I woke up at my usual time Thursday and started getting ready for work. Alesha wasn’t in bed so I thought she was just up early and couldn’t sleep. When I went down stairs I found her pacing around the living room. It seems she’d been having contractions for quite some time and she was checking to see if they stopped. They didn’t. She was going into labor. She and I got the kids ready as soon I we could. My cousin Carolina did us the enormous favor of taking care of the kids at her house while I drove Alesha to the hospital. By 7:45 am Ambrose had been born by way of C-section. He was in breach position, just like his older brother had been and not only that but his umbilical cord had been rapped around his neck. The anesthesiologist had an iPod with him in the surgery room and had been playing music through out the surgery. As my son was born, the song Baby Boy played in the background. I didn’t even notice. I was told this later by a medical student that was there to learn and help out.
I held Ambrose soon after and Alesha got to see him and kiss him. It was a very odd and difficult moment for me. On the one hand, there was the baby in my arms, perfectly healthy and happy. Not even crying, just like it was with his sister. His eyes were open and he was looking around. On the other hand, there was my wife, here belly wide open, the skin folded over itself over her rib cage looking like a gutted pumpkin. Seeing her like that made me very sad and very worried.
Afterward, Alesha went into the recovery room to sleep. I went to see Ambrose at the nursery and then went out to the waiting room to meet up with my father-in-law who was waiting out there. We went to see the baby and when he was satisfied that everything was okay, he went home. He planned to come back later with my mother-in-law once Alesha was in a room and awake.
I went to have breakfast and sketched a bit but I wasn’t really in the mood to draw. When I returned, Alesha had been moved into a room and I went in to visit and help out. She really didn’t need me there though. She just needed to sleep. Also, the baby wasn’t going to show up for a few hours. They needed to make sure he was okay.
I was left with nothing to do. I couldn’t pick up the kids because they were having a fantastic time some 30 miles away. I was useless to my wife who was sleeping and I didn’t know what to do with myself for the next two hours. Since work was only 20 minutes away, I thought I’d go there, so I did.
I got quite a mixed reaction from people at work for the fact that I had showed up. I was only planning to be there for two hours. I discovered that my section was given out to other people so I couldn’t do what I had planned to very easily. The Director gave me one of my scenes back and I did as much of it as I could before going back to the hospital. Time flew.
I got back a just a few minutes before Ambrose was wheeled into Alesha’s room for the first time. Just then my parents showed up and saw their new grandson. It was a very happy moment.
My parents left soon after to pick up my other kids and take them home with them. We were told the kids where having a fantastic time with my cousin. I stayed with Alesha and helped out as much as I could. My in-laws came by later that evening to see their new grandson and they were very happy to see him. Alesha was very tired that night and had trouble keeping any food down.
I left the hospital around 8:30 pm to pick up the kids from my parent’s house. When I got there around 9pm, they were still awake (but running on “fumes”). I heard about their adventures and took them home. Those kids went into hibernation mode or something because they didn’t wake up til 10:30am the next day. VERY unusual for these kids who usually wake up at 8am at the latest.
The kids woke up overwhelmingly happy. We ate breakfast and soon got ready to go to the hospital to see Mommy and Baby Ambrose.
The reaction to the baby was much better than I had anticipated. I thought Munchkin was going to be a bit freaked out by the baby, but she wasn’t. I think she had been mulling the idea of a baby brother over in her head on the way to the hospital. At one point, as we walked through the hospital parking lot to see Mommy for the first time, she said,
“Daddy, I like my new baby brother.” She hadn’t even met him yet. I took that to mean that she liked the idea of having a new baby brother. Elizabeth was very good with him once she got to meet him. One of the first things she did was give him a little kiss on his head.
Dante, on the other hand, wasn’t positive nor negative about the whole thing. He saw the baby and just sorta ignored him after that. Well, at least he wasn’t angry or afraid or something.
I was supposed to meet my parents there after my mom got off work. I was counting on them showing up around 2pm or so but it didn’t turn out that way. Mom had to go shopping since they had just recently come back from a trip and had no food in the house. I was stuck with the kids in the hospital for about four hours and attempted to keep them entertained as best as I could.
When my parents finally showed up, we ate, visited Alesha and Ambrose, and then the kids were off to have fun with my parents. I stayed and helped out Alesha till 9pm before I went and picked up the kids.
The next day (Saturday) we had planned to have my in-laws take care of the kids while I, once again, helped Alesha out as best as I could. Turns out that Alesha’s friend Rosetta showed up and beat me to it. She stayed with Alesha all day and all night so I actually stayed with the kids that day. In the afternoon, Munchkin and I played TRAVEL BLOKUS. She picked up the rules real well and we had fun. In the evening, I tried to get Dante and Munchkin to play it together, but the rules went out the window pretty quick after the attempt. They had fun anyway. We then played with my INGENIOUS board game for a while. It was a good fun evening.
Sunday after Mass and lunch, the kids and I went to my parent’s house and I dropped them off. They were going to go to the park down by their house that has a lake. My brother and Deborah (his wife) were going to be there with little Paolo (my nephew, their son) and I think they were mostly there to celebrate Deborah’s birthday, which was Monday. I went to the hospital and spent the day with Alesha and Ambrose.
Alesha had been doing a lot of bonding with Ambrose the last few days. By this point, she was basically taking care of him all by herself. She had been able to get out of bed the day after the C-section. I was very impressed with how fast she was recovering. She was changing him and feeding him mostly without help for the last three days.
I headed home around 8pm that night, picked up the kids, who had a great time at the park, and went home because I started work again on Monday.
The next day I woke up, got the kids ready for daycare, dropped them off, went to work and waited to be told when I was going to need to pick up Alesha and Ambrose so they could come home. After a bit of confusion, Alesha told me 5:30pm. One of the problems she was having was that her doctor got called out of town for some family emergency. Alesha was waiting for another doctor to see her so she could be dismissed.
I picked up the kids and got to the hospital around 5pm. I took them to get something to eat while we waited. After finishing out food and getting kicked out of the cafeteria, because the kids were too loud, I went back to the room to wait with Alesha. Two and a half excruciating hours later, the doctor finally came by and dismissed her. Everyone but Ambrose was worn out by that point.
Alesha was overwhelmed with exhaustion and emotion all the way home. I was wishing we could be home faster. Once home though, Alesha calmed down and began to relax. I put the kids to bed and they past out pretty quick. Little Ambrose was but in his bassinet and fell asleep in that squished frog pose newborns get into when you lay them down.
I told Alesha about how I fixed the squeak on our bedroom door only to have it close itself all the time now and she cracked a smile and laughed. She felt and looked better.
So after all that, the baby was home. Alesha was home. Everything was almost finished. There were a few things still to take care of but, I least they were finally home.
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Vatican, The board game!
October 25, 2007 in ANSWERING COMMENTS, BOARD GAMES, MY WEB COMIC, MY WEEK, THE SIMPSONS NEWS, Traditional Catholics
THE SIMPSONS NEWS
Looks like we’re beginning to see the light at the end of the tunnel on show 8. All the scenes have been handed out and everyone that finished the scenes they are working on, help others finish the scenes that they haven’t got to yet. I ended up doing exactly that this week. The scene I got is really fun and very funny (or at least I hope it will be after I’m done with it). It’s one of the last scenes of the show and I’m having a good time being silly with Bart and Homer in the kitchen.
MY WEEK
So I spent the beginning of the week working on my web comic (more on that below) and before I knew it, it was almost time to post my blog and I hadn’t even started writing or drawing anything for it. I’m almost always thinking about what I should write on it and always trying to find something worth writing about. That way whoever reads it will at least, hopefully, be entertained. I know sometimes I fail miserably but I try. Well this time I procrastinated a bit too long because I got so caught up in the story I’m trying to write.
The thing that takes the most time about my blog is the drawing part. The drawings I post every week take, at the very least, an hour to do and that is mostly because of the coloring process. The more characters in the drawing, the longer it takes to color. Once I have a drawing done though, the rest is pretty easy. I just type.
Sometimes I get an idea for the drawing before I start typing and sometimes after. Well this time I knew what I was going to write about. This weekend my cousin, my wife, my wife’s best friend and I played a game of Nexus Ops. Nexus Ops is a light science fiction wargame that plays a little like Axis and Allies, a little like The Settlers of Catan and a little like Starcraft the video game. I lost the game miserably and my wife didn’t like it much. Although my cousin loved it but that’s only because he won.
Well, anyway, I was going to write about that and then draw a picture of my cousin on top of the table, kicking board games pieces everywhere, rubbing it in our faces that he won (which he practically did) while we sit by and look stupidly up at him. Well, the thing is, lately I’ve just been drawing the blog drawings on a piece of paper, I scan them in, and I then color and letter them. It’s faster for me that way. If I use the Wacom tablet to draw directly on the computer I find it takes me longer to do. Usually I scan the drawing in at work. This time I didn’t get a chance to draw anything anywhere. My scanner at home is still packed up somewhere, my desktop isn’t working correctly and I just don’t have the time to take care of all these things right now. I was able to go home at a normal time this week. I thought I’d take advantage of the situation and draw the blog drawing at home but since I wasn’t going to be able to scan it in at home, that presented a problem. I didn’t want to stick around at work because I wanted to go home so badly so I thought I’d try drawing directly into the computer again. This time, though, I was going to try something new. I was going to paint the drawing. I thought that maybe, if I used shapes of color instead of lines I could actually get a more accurate and controlled drawing. Since it usually takes me a long time to color the drawings anyway I’d be losing a step of the process.
So I set out to execute my plan once I got home and low and behold it seemed to be working. I was trying to invent for myself the process as I went so it was taking me a bit longer to do it but I was doing it. I was getting really into it. While I was doing this, my wife called on the phone (she hadn’t come home yet) and I spoke to her for a bit. Afterwards I went back to the computer and began working on the drawing again.
Then, that’s when it happened… Photoshop froze on me a second and then crashed. This usually isn’t a big deal except that I had been so caught up in trying to invent for myself a new method of working on Photoshop that I hadn’t even saved the drawing I was working on at all. Not even once. In other words. I lost all my work. I was crushed. I didn’t want to start over. Emotionally I didn’t have it in me anymore. I went on Facebook and put a sad face “how I’m feeling” icon there and sat there staring at the computer. I didn’t do anything else on my blog for the rest of the day.
Next day, when I got into work, I used pencil and paper and drew this instead:
At least I got a drawing done.
MY WEB COMIC
So the story I was trying to write went bye bye. No matter what I did I couldn’t make it work. It was mostly because the story lost focus. It didn’t have a central theme. It didn’t have a point. Every time I tried to give it a point, it became something else. It just wasn’t the story I set out to write. So instead of fighting with the story and trying to force it to go where I wanted it to go, I thought that maybe I’ll go in the direction that these themes took the story. This actually worked a lot better. I’ve actually got a beginning, middle and end to the thing written out in a rough outline. I told the story to my wife and she really likes it, except for the final act climax which I fully admit is really cheesy and it needs work. That’s okay because what I have of this story is a whole lot more than I had with the other story.
I’m actually very excited about it now, even though it wasn’t what I wanted to write. I was trying to write a story about a fourteen year old boy named Joseph before. Now I’m writing about a man named Guy. The stories have the same “inciting incident”, namely the inheritance of money, both stories take place in the modern world and both stories even have a dragon in them yet they couldn’t be more different. If I can make the other story work I’ll still do it but for now I’ll stick to the one that’s working for me.
As soon as I can figure out a really good non cheesy climax to the story, I’ll be ready to start writing.
BOARD GAMES
So I’m not going to write about the game of Nexus Ops I played this weekend because I’ve already mentioned it above. Instead I’m going to call attention to a comment that was left under my About Me page. Imagine my surprise when I read this:
First I’d like to thank Stephen Haliczer Ph.D. for bringing the game to my attention. I appreciate it greatly.
So I checked out the game’s site and read about the game. I also tried reading about it on Board Game Geek (BGG) to see if I could learn a bit more. I found a small forum about the game there where people got a chance to ask Dr. Haliczer questions about the game. When asked how the game is played and how competitive it was Dr. Haliczer answered this:
This sounds really interesting. Unfortunately, when asked about the “roll and move” mechanic (roll the dice, move the number of spaces on the dice) of the game Dr. Haliczer was silent. The game sounds great but I’m iffy about the game being a “roll and move game.” Paul Sauberer asked exactly the question I wanted answered at BGG:
I wish there were more reviews of this game at the official site (there are only two). BGG has no reviews of the game at all. I’m very cautious of the board games I buy and I like to read as much about the game as I can before I spend any money on them to make sure I would really like them. Sometimes I even find free digital versions of games online and decide from playing them, if I want to buy them.
I’d be more likely to buy this game if I could read the rules for it or at least see a sample of play. Never the less I’ve put it on my BGG Wishlist. If “roll and move” mechanics are not a big deal to you, then maybe you ought to get it. If you do, tell me what you think of it. I’m really interested.
ANSWERING COMMENTS
T Melnick, thank you for sharing your position on the comments section of “What in the world is a ‘traditional Catholic’?“. I just wish to clarify something you said. In the post you wrote:
What you wrote above is basically what the Society of St. Pius X also says on their site. So my question is, what do you think of the Society?
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